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 At some point, we should definitely think about reading people's minds. You know, it is very easy to find out what people are doing by reading body language. People give many body language signs which by understanding we can know what that person is thinking.


So without wasting any time, let's start with eight great psychological tips for reading human body language:

1. Crossed arms


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People are usually seen with their arms crossed and even their legs crossed, which is a clear indication that the person is not what the speaker is saying. The listener can claim to be attentive and to understand clearly; Truth, however, his body language.

According to psychologists, a person crossing his hands and legs shows a person's mental, physical, and emotional weaknesses in the current scenario. The most interesting thing is that it is not by design, it is not intentionally adopted body language.

2. bend forward


It is also a commonly used body language. The easiest way to decode is "the closer you get, the more interested you are". This situation means that you are interested in the topic under discussion. When prevention is combined with a genuine smile and a wink, it is a clear form of non-verbal correspondence.

A positive listening position during communication can vibrate the speaker and make the listener feel receptive, friendly, and genuinely comfortable.


3. Look at your watch again and again.


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If someone keeps looking at his watch repeatedly during a conversation, it can happen for some reasons, such as he is not interested, wants to end the conversation as soon as possible, or it makes you understand what he says. Used to be. This technique also tells us whether the listener is in a hurry or not.

4. Stepping-back is not a good sign.


When you are talking to a person and the listener is stepping backward, it usually means that what you said at the time makes them uncomfortable or that the listener is just a little bit interested in that topic. Is not. And want to get out of the situation. This behavior causes too much collapse of the speaker. Sometimes they feel rejected.

If the speaker experiences this behavior, then that person will never talk about that subject again in the future.

5. Eyes blink with a genuine smile.


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When people smile, their faces may lie, but their eyes may not. A real smile always comes in the eyes, which is formed on a person's face due to excessive growth of the skin. People often smile to hide their thoughts and feelings.

To know if a person is really smiling, you need to look into their eyes and see if the audience can find the crow's feet in the corners. If so, it is a genuine smile, and if not, there is a high probability. This smile is something to hide.


6. Eyes do not lie; They are the mirror of our inner soul.


We all need to listen at least once: "When you talk to me, look me in the eye!" Let's discuss why we had to listen to this. People cannot lie by looking into someone's eyes, but some people make eye contact with the purpose of convincing others that they are not telling the truth, even if they are not true.

Most people stare at the point where they feel uncomfortable. If the interlocutor is completely silent and not blinking, he is likely to lie.

7. Raised eyebrows indicate discomfort.


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Three main emotions namely anxiety, surprise, and fear raise eyebrows during a discussion. There are usually no signs of anxiety, surprise, or fear during poor communication or heated discussion. This may mean that something is wrong.

8. Excessive boredom indicates his eagerness for approval.


In general, the audience feels very bad; This means that they want to make a positive impact on the speaker. Positive in the sense that they want to convince the speaker that their agenda is clear to them.

Most listeners believe that unless the speaker is moving repeatedly, it is questioning their ability to follow directions or that the listener may misinterpret the information provided by the speaker. Therefore, if someone shakes his head too much, it is better to doubt it.

Based on the above discussion, we can conclude a famous quote by the famous American author Sarah Orne Jewett: “Tact is, after all, a kind of mind-reading,” and the tact is nothing but the ability to read others’ mind by analyzing their reflective body language.

Conclusion


Tying the Hand People are usually seen with their arms crossed and even their legs crossed, which is a clear indication that the person is not what the speaker is saying. The most interesting thing is that it is not by design, it is not intentionally adopted body language.

bend forward It is also a commonly used body language. When you are talking to a person and the listener is stepping backward, it usually means that what you said at the time makes them uncomfortable or that the listener is just a little bit interested in that topic.

A real smile always comes in the eyes, which is formed on a person's face due to excessive growth of the skin. To know if a person is really smiling, you need to look into their eyes and see if the audience can find the crow's feet in the corners. If the interlocutor is completely silent and not blinking, he is likely to lie.