We now know that we can not only improve our personality, but we can also develop it in ways that were previously not understood or thought possible.

Until recently, it was believed that personality is permanent. In 1890 the famous Harvard psychologist William James wrote in his Influential Principles of Psychology that personality was "cast in plaster" in early adulthood.

This vision lasted for more than a century; However, the idea that the person is more fluid has strengthened over time. We live in an age where we believe we can influence and control the features and functionality we want to develop or improve.

What is personality?


Personality is the invariable pattern of thought, feeling, and behavior that makes a person unique.

When we say someone has "a good character," we mean that they are kind, interesting, and pleasant to be around.

Everyone wants to be attractive to others. To do this, it's important to have a good character, perhaps even more than looking good.

In fact, about 85% of your success and happiness will be the result of how you interact with others. Ultimately it depends on your personality whether you are attracted to people or they will run away from you.

Although we can only improve our appearance to a certain extent, we can improve our personality as much as we want. We can develop or include any traits of our personality that we find appropriate and pleasant.

Here are the 10 best ways to improve your personality:


1. Be the best listener:

Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was considered one of the most attractive women in the world because of her exceptional listening skills. She was known for looking into someone's eyes, seeing every word, and making them feel important. There is nothing more attractive than having someone listen to you carefully to make you believe that you are the only person in the world.

2. Read more The more you read and develop new interests:

The more interesting it becomes to others. That way when you meet new people you can share your thoughts and ideas with them.


3. Be a good conversationalist:

It has to do with what you read and know. When you have something to share, learn to share it with others. No one can read or know everything, so it's encouraging to learn from others that we don't have time to read ourselves. If you're shy, join a group like Toastmasters, which will encourage you to share your information.

4. Have an opinion:

There is nothing more exhausting than talking to someone who is not thinking about them. If you have nothing to explain, the conversation will go nowhere. However, if you have an unusual point of view or a different opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to communicate (if, of course, everyone knows it). A unique approach broadens the horizons of all.

5. Meet new people:

Try to meet new people, especially those who are different from you. Not only does it introduce you to different cultures and alternative perspectives, but it also broadens your horizons.

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6. Be yourself:

The next hardest thing you haven't thought about is trying to be someone you're not. The ability to adapt or accept often comes to the fore. Since each of us is unique, we are interested in expressing that uniqueness. Trying to imitate someone else not only fails but also shows a lack of authenticity.

7. Have a positive attitude:

Who wants to be with negative people who complain a lot or have nothing to say? In fact, most of us leave when we see them coming. Instead, be an avid foodie from the moment you walk into your room. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, relax and revive those around you with your presence.

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8. Have fun and discover the humorous part of life:

Everyone loves company that makes them laugh or smile so look for a fun and original part of the situation, that is always there. The hilarious relief is a very welcome and sometimes necessary touch. While you can add fun and spontaneity to a dark or other dark environments, other people will naturally be drawn to and grateful to you.

9.support others:

Support is probably the most comforting quality you can incorporate into your personality. When you say hello, you help others when they need you. We all love having cheerleaders in our corner; It encourages us to believe in ourselves and helps us stand out when we are on earth.


10. Be honest and treat people with respect:

Honesty and faithfulness to your word will earn you praise, respect, and appreciation from those around you. Nothing improves a person's personality other than honesty and respect: respect and self-esteem for others.

Human beings have the power and ability to shape our personalities the way we want. When we become who we can be, we contribute to the happiness of others and ourselves.

Conclusion


Personality is the invariable pattern of thought, feeling, and behavior that makes a person unique. Ultimately it depends on your personality whether you are attracted to people or they will run away from you. Although we can only improve our appearance to a certain extent, we can improve our personality as much as we want. We can develop or include any traits of our personality that we find appropriate and pleasant.

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